for inland waterways vessels we would strongly recommend a marine specific silencer because they are designed to be gastight. For further info please review Webasto marine silencer and required accessories on our weblinks below
+ required adapter and exhaust clamps, plus insulation if required
Regarding a controller? The Webasto Thermo TOP can be switched via a timer device that provides a switched 12v output, so yes tthere a a number of non-Webasto programmers that can provide this. Incidentally, Webasto do not recommend the heater is switched via a room temp device in addition - primarily due to increase likelihood of frequent cycling of heater